Brings Awareness to Mesothelioma
World Cancer Day, celebrated each year on February 4, is a day set aside to increase cancer awareness around the globe. Its mission is to share the belief that every person should have access to diagnosis, treatment
Their website includes resources for understanding and coping with cancer, a world-wide map of activities, and a place for patients, caregivers and health providers to share stories that offer hope, purpose
The Mesothelioma Diagnosis
Mesothelioma is a type of cancer that most commonly attacks the lining of the lungs, but it sometimes occurs in the lining of the heart, the peritoneal cavity, and the abdomen. Most cases result from asbestos exposure over many years, making it rare in young people. Children, however, suffer a direct impact when an adult in the family gets a mesothelia diagnosis.
Coping with the Diagnosis
Whether the cancer is mesothelioma or another kind, its diagnosis takes a toll on everyone in the family, especially children. At times, it brings everyone closer together but drives them apart at others. With emotions that run the gamut from guilt and fear to a need to protect, the ability to talk openly and share feelings is crucial.
The information parents give their children depends on the individual situation and the age of the child, but not talking about cancer just makes things worse. Although a shocking diagnosis makes parents feel overwhelmed and afraid, the way they handle the situation plays a big role in how family members react.
Parents can make it easier for a child to cope with a cancer diagnosis in the family by doing things like these:
• Allowing the child to ask questions and answering them honestly
• Helping the child stay in touch with friends
• Let the child know what to expect from the treatment and illness
• Accepting support from counselors, friends and family members
• Providing creative outlets for the child to express his feelings
• Getting support from counselors, faith leaders
• Taking care of themselves and asking for help
The New Normal
Cancer affects families in emotional, physical and financial ways that require all the members to adapt to a new normal. Parents must decide for themselves how much and what to say to reassure children they will be cared for and safe, regardless of the outcome.
When a Parent Has Cancer, a guide published by the University Health Network, breaks information down into specific age groups from toddlers to teens and explains the kinds of reactions to expect from each group and how to deal with them, including special activities like games and crafts. It also has a directory of helpful links.
When people who have cancer share their stories, it gives them a new perspective on their journeys, and it helps others. Community and online support groups, especially ones like the World Cancer Day website, give them an opportunity to do just that.